How did you first find out you had cancer?

Always vigilant because of my family’s history I practiced breast self exam diligently. I discovered a lump in my breast while taking a shower. My primary care physician assured me there was no reason for concern. Instinctively I knew better and cautiously sought another opinion.

How did you react when you heard the news?

In the words taken from my autobiographical stage play ‘Sister, Girl.’ “Surprise jumped in my mouth, grabbed my tongue, and refused to let my mouth form a response.”

What course of treatment were you prescribed?

M-a-s-t-e-c-t-o-m-why. On Christmas Eve I entered the hospital. On Christmas day I went home. Radiation and chemotherapy followed with the addition of Tamoxifen.

What most surprised you about your treatment?

The concept of a chemical cocktail in my body destroying some cells so that others could live, if my mind did not allow the acceptance of the chemotherapy, how could my body respond, nothing can be achieved without belief. After the third round of chemotherapy I said no more.

What would your advice be to anyone who’s just received a cancer diagnosis? 


How long have you been cancer free? You are an active participant in your care and well-being. Miracles happen everyday. Cancer is not an automatic death sentence. See yourself as whole, every part of mind, soul and body healthy and complete.

What lessons did you learn from the experience?

I’m still a student.

If you could send one message to all the Good Enough Mothers out there – what would it be?

Love yourself. Be strong. Be fierce!

Brandyn Barbara Artis, actress, playwright, breast cancer awareness advocate, Grand prize winner of the Harper’s Bazaar/Estee Lauder Fabulous at every age contest, author of the soon to be released, RUNNING BAREFOOT IN PARIS, the novel.

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